Sorry you are having a bad day today. We all have our ups and downs. I find when I really start to think about what is going on, that usually sends me into a downward spiral. Is there something that you can do to get your mind off the situation? Go and try and do something for you. I know it is easier said than done. Your H is very lucky to have a W so willing to put up with obvious bonehead moves to try and make the M work. He will come to realize this soon enough.
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I don't know...sorry guys. I know you are all on the other side of this and probably have no idea but this is probably how some of you WAS feel. I am so hurt and angry. This is not how I planned my life. He is not the person I thought he was when I married him.
Don't be sorry. We are all entitled to get on here and vent, especially when feeling down. Just know that we have all been there and tomorrow will be a better day. As far as being a changed person, I don't think there are many people on here that haven't changed in some way since they were married. The key is that even though they may have changed personality or habits in their lives, they are still the same person they were, and that is what keeps us here trying so hard. At least that is what keeps me here.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1162413&page=2#Post1162413 M-28 W-28 Together 10 years Married 2 years No children Things started taking a turn in 01/07
