MrsCAC4, No problem, It is hard to keep everyone straight here. She is indeed the one who feels like she's got to pee when she's approaching an O, and as far as I've been able to determine, that feeling of having to pee is what gets her panicky. I get her closest to an O with oral. She's usually asking for IC as soon as she starts to get warmed up, but IC generally will not get her going as good. I'm not sure if pg comes into it, in fact I think I am more worried about it than she is: the only time of the month she has any interest in sex is the day or so around when she is fertile, and in that case it is me saying no, we can't have IC then.
