Its funny you say that baout her kid because one time when he was opening up to me about her(complaning) he said he could not stand her D10. I was surprised never had I heard H talk like that about a child! I said oh well just give it time, she will grow on you. He said no that she was a big spoiled brat.
My D10 enlightened me further on just how much of a spoiled brat she is. D10 tolod me sometimes OW d10 will tell H what to do- like "H go get me this" or do that, & when H wont he will tell her she can get up herself then she will whine & tell OW on H!! Boy she really does sound spoiled. I am thinking when school starts things will start to get more REAL since OW d will be home fulltime and getting on H's nerves. RIght now OW D is at her grandma's and all is well in paradise.