Limbo/chicki, let me give you all ladies some insight. I have been in an out of EAs. I have done so since my W wasnt the romantic person I wanted her to be. I have done so to read and understand what the OP has to say and the excitement that drives me to think how she will be in bed. It didnt got me anywhere. I didnt even went out soul searching for a one night stand eventhough I had all the opportunities in the world. I stood there alone and waited for W. H's only think of one thing - SEX, nothing else. Once all the sexual fantasies had been done and have been fulfilled, H's look for another and then another.
To prevent that from happening, I would suggest that you all become the OW that H's are looking for. A man only needs to be sexually fulfilled to be happy, everything else comes in naturally. That is my perspective. I am not saying that my W didnt satisfied me, all I am saying is that it wasnt romantic enough but now I understand why she wasnt. That can easily be fixed given the chance and patience it can happend.
But for the record, I must say I have not been with OW all throughout the R.
Last edited by MissingMyHoney; 08/16/0702:27 PM.
See the W, Listen to the W, but dont Speak back to the W. Bridle your tongue...
