It has helped to spend more QT w/ my kids since H left. That is where my detaching comes in. I take them everywhere. They are my support when I need a lift me up. I can count on my girls. I just fill my days/nights & weekends w/ them. Sometimes we go to Books a Million and stay till closing or others jsut window shop, walk the mall anything to distract all of us.
I stopped calling for some time now and days go by when I dont think of OW at all. Dont get me wrong every now and then in the middle of the night I awake and hope my H would show up & say he's back to stay,but even those times are few.
