My girls are my biggest concern in all of this mess. My W believes that they are for her as well. I really do not see how they are her number 1 priority while caring on in an adulterous relationship and filing for D. If my girls truly are her biggest concern you would think that she would try and keep our family intact. But that has yet to happen.
I am going to miss not seeing my DD's everyday. Not being apart of all the little things that go on in their lives will be hard. Instead of hearing my girls yell out "Daddy" and come running to me when I get home, I will be coming home to an empty house. That might be the hardest for me. I love my girls and will make sure that I am as much apart of their daily lives as I can.
You are right this sitch has made me a better parent. Not that I wasn't a good parent before all this, I no longer have to walk on egg shells with my W. It is amazing how much time and energy I put in trying to keep my W happy and now that I am not I have more time to focus on my girls.
Yes, they are innocent and do not deserve this. I love watching them laugh, play, and be care free like they deserve to be. It saddens me to think that my W might take that away from them.
