N2M

How much contact did you have before you "shut up" ??
Did you call him daily, wkly, monthly?
Did you see him wkly, monthyly?
Email him daily wkly monthly?

I think this is important for all of us have different levels of contact. Those with kids have more and those whose H has moved farther away less. So I guess if you can use your sitch and how you cut back maybe we can translate it to ours.

I see H 2-3 times a mon., call him rarely(kid related) and now not at all. Emailed 2-3 times a wk.. now gone from 1-2 to goal is nothing. Am I getting still enough??


m24 yrs
h 50
me 47
s 21
s 17
left 5-30-06, and 12-4-06
still gone.............