How much contact did you have before you "shut up" ?? Did you call him daily, wkly, monthly? Did you see him wkly, monthyly? Email him daily wkly monthly?
I think this is important for all of us have different levels of contact. Those with kids have more and those whose H has moved farther away less. So I guess if you can use your sitch and how you cut back maybe we can translate it to ours.
I see H 2-3 times a mon., call him rarely(kid related) and now not at all. Emailed 2-3 times a wk.. now gone from 1-2 to goal is nothing. Am I getting still enough??
m24 yrs h 50 me 47 s 21 s 17 left 5-30-06, and 12-4-06 still gone.............