Yes, I know how you feel as well. Only I am a few months behind in He## right now so I guess there is more Sh## to look forward to. Yikes. I joked to my best friend that my H probably would celebrate with the OW tonight how he finally dropped the bomb that he loved her. I imagined the rejoice she must feel that he is no longer pretending and that they can come out of the closet as a couple in love instead of hiding in the shadows as a horrible affair. My best friend said, "Yeah, and that's when the fun stops, the challenge is over, and she dumps his a@@!" I smile because it sounds like that is what really happens! They do deserve to get ther hearts broken. I want him to be happy, but c'mon, how can you live with a homewrecker when their are other spouses and children and parents involved. It is insanity. Nothing clean about it. Try to rebuild trust and know this is a natural evolution of an affair. It will end and they will want reconcilliation. Hang ot in Piecing for a while to see how to do it right. I am just enetring into Affair land, so my heart is still tattered, but I imagine I will be in your shoes in about six months or less.
Last edited by mkultra; 08/16/0701:22 PM.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
