She says she does, and she spent the first month or so, after I found out about the last one, crying and saying she was sorry. Problem is that I think this she is more sorry she got caught than she is for her actions.
And, I think, she is more upset that her life will potentially be turned upside down (have to get full time job, move out of our house, etc)than she is upset that she hurt me.
I very much relate to your last couple of sentences...