Do not bury your thoughts, feeling and emotions! Let them out. Bring them to your H and communicate them to him. If need be come here and share them, develop a plan to communicate them and then do it!
The feelings you sweep under the rug do not go away, they remain until they are put to rest. Your H is an honorable man, putting his efforts in the M. I applaude him! REconciliation is a long road. With two committed partners, one to support the other, the journey is less treacherous.
Glad to see you back, let us know how we can help.
