Curious,

How do you deal with the fact that after making it clear about your boundries, they continue to infringe on them. All I can say is; if nothing else I understand how selfishness can cause the other person to become so resentful and angry that it makes things seem a lot worse than they are.

The situation has not improved, however I have started to detach and I am not really interested in talking to her about it anymore. I think maybe I need to re-examine the situation and understand that sometimes people just can't forgive past mistakes. Sometimes we just can't get out of our own way and sometimes it just takes a long time! What a wait, but I know putting a timeline on things is just not reasonable.


Married:10 years
D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took
Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!