Thanks, GD. Mediation should be fairly straightforward, the biggest hurdle is how we're going to agree on who can move where/when because we want joint custody. Other than that 50/50 split of assets after we buy some basic furniture (primarily a bed) for me. We'll also go joint on bday parties, kids expenses (clothes, school, etc.). Because neither one of us wants to hurt the other, I don't feel the need to protect myself. I count myself lucky on that. Also gives me hope for the coming months. That and she's not considering dating (yippee!).
I stand by my original contention. Anything with needles = bad.
BD
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Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY