You DID do all you could do and continuing w/ your changes is still doing all that you can do, even if it is just for you and your kids now. Your angry feelings right now are completely understandable and the great thing is that you know how to handle and work through these feelings now.
WTG on that tattoo! I am glad you are happy w/ it.
CVA a pisces too! Another reason you should have come to Orlando.
