If we ever get back to that sort of intimacy I will back off when I get the obvious body language.
Not only is this key, but it's also key to back off in a respectful way. I'll admit, I was spoiled, but if we went 4 or 5 days without sex, I would sometimes get, don't know the exact word here, huffy or snippy and accept her refusal with bad grace. Not all the time, but more than I should have. It was an extremely immature way to act.
Whether I work things out with my W or begin a new R, this is a behavior of mine that I am going to be on guard against. On the other hand, a key criteria for my next R is openness and an ability to talk about uncomfortable things, so it should be less of an issue.
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
