Since my W plans on moving out in a few days, I decided to implement a sort of LRT. I started by saying "I would prefer that we stay together but since you feel that is not possible, let's get the D process going". We discussed what we could sell or keep. I made sure to point out a fond memory when certain items were brought up. Then the kid factor came about. Earlier today my 5D said: "since daddy will not be living with us are we still a family"?? With that my W began crying. In fact, she cried at least 5 times during our discussion. I did not dare bring up the OM since this was a positive moment for me.
Me: 41 W: 40 D5, S4 Bomb Dropped: 7/8/2007 Status: W has moved out with kids 8/25/2007