PA's. Probably more EA's... She is a very adventurous and active person, could maybe be classified as a thrill seeker. to tell you the truth, lack of attention for a reason to me is ok the first time, but after counseling, and learning on how to deal with that, I don't buy it.
If you are unhappy, you raise your hand and say so. You do not cross the line again. I think most people can claim they do not get the attention they feel they deserve. I could claim that.
I am trying to not sound to "whoa is me", but this time has me a little bitter.
Do I love her? Not right now. Could I ever again? Not sure. That would go with learning to trust her again.
She says she has changed and finally learned her lesson. Says she has cut off all contact (as of last week), and that she wants another chance to prove herself to me and our family again.
All of these are the right things to say, but when is enough enough? I feel like I have been on a roller coaster over the past 3 years and time to get off. But, the kids... Man, that kills me...
