Are they all PA's or EA's or do you know for sure? Do you have any idea, other than the lack of attention thing, why she is having the A's?

Do you still love her? Do you feel you could ever honestly trust her again?

I think these are questions you need to ask yourself. Then you need to read Divorce Remedy and get down to work on YOU. You need to be happy with yourself and also think about what you could have done differently in your M.

What is she saying right now? I know she's still "talking" to latest OM, but is she saying that the A is still going on or is she saying anything about wanting to work on the M?

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10