back to square -1 or -10000

[RedHeadWife]

Cat, I'm so sorry that it's come to this, but that is where I am at as well as far as where my boundary ends. I had to decide and also let H know that if he does cheat again, it's over. I will not allow it to happen again. I will not allow him to disrespect me again. He's already cheated 3 or 4 times.

I think it finally comes to a point where we have to say "enough is enough" and they have to KNOW FOR A FACT that they can lose us, that we won't stick around forever waiting for them to figure it out.

Also, I think in each individual sitch and each individual WAS, it's always different on what may or does bring them back to reality and what makes them wake up to what they are doing to themselves and their families.

I hope your H wakes up sooner than later. Sometimes though tough love is what ends up needing to happen.

Thinking about you!