I think I know the answer most will have, but as I am on the verge of making this important, life-changing decision, I feel like I need some unbiased feedback.
My wife and I have been on and off again over the past 3 years due to 3 (that I know of) affairs that she has had.
We have 2 daughters (5 and 8) who mean the world to both of us.
We have tried counseling and everything else, but when I found out a couple of months ago that the last affair, that I found out about last August, was still going on (while we were in counseling and supposedely falling in love with each other all over again), I now feel like this is the last straw.
Even over the last 2 months as she has apologized profusely saying that she has cut off that relationship, and that she wants me back home, I find out that she is still talking to him.
Her excuse for all of these affairs has been lack of attention. I don't buy that now (I did at first...). My family and friends think I am crazy for not ending it yet, but the thought of my girls growing up in a broken home and envisioning their faces when we have to tell them kills me.
