I had gotten behind on your sitch and hadn't read the news about the talk. I'm really sorry for the rejection, but I know that you'll pick yourself up very soon.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
Pick yourself up and dust yourself off. You know you can, we all know you can and will. Take as long as you need though. My rejection came Sunday, I was on the bottom of the ocean until C last night. Thought I'd be swimming in sadnees for at least week, maybe longer. My parents are even coming down this weekend b/c they were worried about me. Now, I don;t think it is neccessary, but will be an opportunity to reconnect with them. Of course, I'm just waiting fro the next flood of emotions to overtake me. Wondering if I've bottled things again? Take your time GD, you have come so far. Look at yourself in the mirror and smile. You got it going on!
Me 32 WAW 30 D Bomb 7/9 Separated 7/15 Reiterated bomb 8/12 PA 8/21 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1198643
((((GD)))) I'm sorry your talk did not go as you had wished....stay strong and true to yourself. Stay strong for your kids!
Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt! I liked this quote cause it talked about dancing...my dancing man!!
take care of you! Christa
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"
GD, Feel your pain for the moment, grieve for the R that is now dead...this all is part of life and provides the contrast that makes the happy, passionate moments all the more so. (A little Bhuddist philosophy).
Christa, Who is this quote from? I absolutely love it and feel like spray painting it on the front of my house for the world to see!
SD
Me 41 W 41 Kids: S9 S7 Married 16 years Bomb dropped 2/2/07 Still living together! current thread
SD, Target sells it. Did you not see it hanging in my l/r?
Also, here's one from a song I downloaded a while ago (Lindsey Lohan of all people):
Live. . . like it's the last moon rising. Scream. . . just like no one's there. Lose . . . all of my defenses. Hold you, touch you, love you like it's the very last moment in time.
Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.
Me: 45 - WAH: 36 S8; D6 M: 11 yrs 07/06 Initial Bomb 10/06; D Bomb 11/06 - DBing begun 1/5/07 - H moved out 03/16/07 To date: No papers filed; H not seen a L; trying to convince me to MUTUALLY file for D
I went and met with my atty today, tweeked the mediation stuff a little (which I think W will be fine with), and decided that I will likely be able to sign off on it Monday, as well as the D. I'm actually looking forward to getting it out of the way now too, since I had the last stand talk with W. I will feel okay about moving on after that, knowing that I did everything I could to save the M. Though I know the feelings aren't feelings that I want or have forever, I certainly do feel a bit angry and spiteful toward W and her BF. I'm hurt, and this is certainly where the anger is coming from. I'm angry that she is still so willing to walk away from this M and the family we created together, without truly doing everything she can do to save it. The selfishness of it all really bothers me. I don't want to be angry, but I cannot help it right now. I won't act on it, of course, and I will continue to be consistent with my changes because it is what is best for me. They are sticking more and more, and with time they will be permanent.
BTW (mostly speaking to you, Nomo), I got my tattoo yesterday (Tuesday). For those of you who are unaware, it is my first one. It is a pisces art piece that I found on the internet when looking for ideas. I figured that I will always be a pisces, so this tattoo should be something that I will be content with for the rest of my life. Here's the link to the website where it is displayed link I got it on my right shoulder blade on my back. It wasn't quite as bad as I thought it would be, so that was a bonus (it had its moments though!).
Your turn, Nomo!
GD
p.s. I don't think SD could've seen that quote in your l/r Still because he never came over (or did he...? ).
Hey, what is your Bday? I am a pisces too! No way, no how am I getting a tat.
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.
CVA -- the Ides of March (March 15th). When's yours? You being a pisces would've made it all the more cool if you'd have been in Orlando. Me, Kat, Still, and Donna_Found are all pisces too! Poor Nomo -- he's an Aries (jk Nomo).
Dear Hopeless Romantic (which is a GREAT thing): I am smiling ear to ear bout your tat! The rest of your post reflects how strong and healthy you are. The 28 year old inspiration.
Nomo
M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link
(jk Nomo).