Atlas, I hate when I see things go south. It tends to make me a little more pessimistic about my own R. I was really pulling for you, but if the decision is giving you some peace, so be it. As I was reading the posts, I found myself agreeing with CVA. I'm not sure that the filing and divorce proceedings will necessarily limit the stress. I haven't gone through it myself, but I can only imagine it gets worse before it gets better. I'm wondering if going dark for a couple of weeks would be better. It seems as though you've come to terms with the decision, so I would think you could focus on more productive tasks.
