Would it be OK for awhile just a short while ... to stop the analyzing and just enjoy the sex?
LOL- It's not really analyzing, it's more like anticipating. Like leafing through a cookbook before you prepare and eat a meal. I rarely cook by the recipe but I like to read cookbooks and talk about cooking with other people because then in the midst of whipping up a spontaneous batch of whatever I will have the sudden inspiration to do something new and different that might be better. Proust-like recollection of sensual experiences is good for me too. "More, more, more! said the baby."
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
