Fianlly a day of sub 90 heat! had my first bike ride in over a week. Reallyb thought I'd be back at square one, but I went my longest distance yet! Porbably b/c I'm packing a little less! Only had about 15 extra lbs, but must be like 7-8 now! And i can actually feel an ab or two in there somewhere. My W had asked during the past month if I was getting in shape for my upcoming Labor Day Weekend. She always thinks I'm trying to impress the ladies (except her). I just kept repeating, "no I'm tired of complaining about my belly and not doing a thing about it." Thought that was sinking in, who knows now. Anyway, feeling good after that, time to fire up te grill for some chicken. Me thinks a grilled chicken salad would be refreshing. That will give me leftover breasts for a lunch or two. Then mother will be calling. I guess she spoke to MIL. W has not been talking to MIL about the sitch. Can't say I blame her since MIL is pressing her to reconcile, give it time, etc. Everything I want, but it's just pushing W towards D. We'll see what mom has to say. Maybe I can have her ask MIL to back off W. W won't let the questions seep in if she is getting them from others.
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