My penance...

[Steel_Box]

Thanks Pro wife, (I like husband's version)
I appreciate the insight. I realize that the fight is up to me, and I haven't given it up. I can't yet.

Unless your wife obviously goes back to the OM, it really is over for her. She's just working through the aftermath.

I forgot to mention that he is a co-worker, and they would meet during travels. Because of this I won't know if she goes back to him. The only way to tell is to start digging/tracking again, and that hurts to much. The txt conversations I've seen are not work related and the videos definitely aren't. So, it doesn't appear to me like "working through" it. But, then again, I don't understand her thought process at all anyway.

Your thoughts, am I missing it?