I wasn't talking about MBing instead of sex with my H, I was talking about MBing when my drive is higher than his. Say I would like to do it 4 times a week and 2 is enough for him. That means I can have awesome sex with my H 2 times a week and MB 2 times a week. It also means that I do not have to go around whining that he's not up for it 2 more times a week.
I am different from him. One time a week I like to eat fish, as he hates the stuff and I love it. I choose to do that on the night he spends at the scuba club. If I chose to do that on a night he is home for dinner I think it would cause marital strain. If I choose to nag at him for not boinking me 4 times a week instead of 2 it causes marital strain.
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
