I've been physically separated from my stbx for about 20 months now and emotionally separated a little over two years. Her OM is in prison serving 15 to life for 2 ND degree murder. She was engaged to be married to him before he went to prison 15 years ago. He's up for parole this November. At one time, she told me she MAY BE interested in reconciliation. I told her she would have to cut all ties to OM before I would be interested. She wouldn't do that and I didn't want to be 2 ND best, so I bulked at the ideal. I feel I've lost my love for her. She will be my 2 ND ex. I have a S14 from my first M and a S7 from this one.

That's it in a nut shell.

"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare."
-Mark Twain