Because I think there can be merit in considering the value judgments of others, as long as you keep a clear view of what *your* values are. Someone else's value judgments can sometimes confront you with a way in which you are *not* living up to *your own* values.
I agree. If it weren't for someone else's value judgements of me I wouldn't be hanging out here with all you cool people.
ETA: And what I mean is that reading the BB HELPS me become more in touch with my sexuality, and that is a very good thing.
