I don't want a divorce. However, she says it going to happen.
Then quit making it easy for her...if she REALLY wants this then make her be the one to do it. If you get yourself a good attorney (should she actually file) then you still have a say in how things go.
Honestly, you need to let your actions match your words. If YOU DON'T WANT A D, THEN DON'T GO FILE FOR ONE.
Just because one person files, does NOT automatically mean you lose everything...you could lose just as much by being the one to file. That is why it is crucial to get yourself the best attorney you can afford to protect yourself.
Once again...IF YOU DO NOT WANT THIS, DO NOT DO IT! I can't be clearer than that. By doing this, you are letting her run right over you. By doing this you are being her doormat.
