(((((((Ali))))))))

I am sorry but I totally disagree with your choice to stay with this man.

I do think you should work on the Marriage from a distance and not be in the same household until he gets a grip of what his life has become.

He is dangerous, he is insensitive, he is an abuser.

How long can you keep going on and on banging your head against a wall and hoping that somethng will change.

This is part of co-dependant behavior.
You trying to fix the problem.
You trying to find the solution.


Just remember the cycle will continue with your children as they watch the way their parents behave and how they cope with issues.

You don't have to be a martyr.
You do deserve better then this.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.