I guess the reason why we keep "fishing for sex" anyway is that if we don't then there is none forthcoming.
I asked you a few days ago if you wanted to do a workshop. You said sure. Nothing has happened since.
According to your logic above, if I really want or need a workshop that badly, and lets say for discussion sake you are the only person with whom I can have a workshop, then it's my job to 'hound' you about it until you cave and decide to participate with me.
Ah... but we all know me, and if we're going to have a workshop, it's going to be a good one, with lots of deep thinking, lots of writing, and lots of enthusiasm.
If your heart is only half-way in it, or let's imagine you say, 'yeah, sure, let's have a workshop,' and you never bother to come back and ask me about it, for gosh sakes... then my experience of the workshop is going to suffer as well... because I NEED you to be enthusiastic. After all, you SAID you would have a workshop with me.
Obviously, you must not care a great deal about me... I've known you for how long now, on these boards... no, we've never met, yes, it is only a BB, but there is some form of relationship that exists between you and I...
Okay... was there a grain of a moment, before you realized what I was up to, or that you decided my example is NOT comparable... that you had an honest feeling/reaction to my words here?
What was that feeling(s)...? Did your wanting/willingness to have a 'workshop' with me drop?
