I wrote the other day about H bringing up the issue of how he'd have to decrease the amount that he transfers to me each paycheck because he will now have to pay rent. For the past several years, we've had a system where an amount equal to about 50% of our monthly expenses is automatically transfered to my checking account (broken out over 2 paychecks per month). I pay all of the household bills out of my checking account. Well, I just checked on the last transfer, which was 2 days ago, and he cut the amount by almost half!!!!! We never agreed to such a huge deduction- our bills are not going to decrease by much just because he's not living here.
I really think he's lost it. Who is this alien who's taken over my H's body?
So, I would like some advice on how I should approach this. He's out of town until tomorrow and then the kids and I will be away from Friday to Monday. The old me would have called him up immediately and confronted him. The new me is here asking for advice on how to proceed. Thanks.
For the past several years, we've had a system where an amount equal to about 50% of our monthly expenses is automatically transfered to my checking account (broken out over 2 paychecks per month). I pay all of the household bills out of my checking account. Well, I just checked on the last transfer, which was 2 days ago, and he cut the amount by almost half!!!!! We never agreed to such a huge deduction- our bills are not going to decrease by much just because he's not living here. 
