Away from seeing how your wife might potentially feel. From seeing how you dismiss her issues and feelings because they are not the same as yours. From seeing that there are things you can choose to do whether she chooses to do anything right now or not. From seeing that your choices are yours to make and don't have to depend on what your wife chooses to do at this moment.
All I said is lets STOP the blame game and seek a solution SIMULTANEOUSLY and UNCONDITIONALLY.
So YOU are putting conditions on YOUR stopping of the blame game. You will only stop if SHE stops and if she stops at the time. Those are big conditions.
But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus
