Hey Willing, I hope I do 'catch up' with you. Thanks for the kind words. Without getting my hopes up, I do think there will be another change in the next month. I have more insight to what is going on with her, and foresee (with my jedi mind) some things clicking in her head, along with my detachment and PMA. I don't know that the change will be good, or even associated with, my M. But, that is out of my control. I am going to re-revamp my goal list (adopted from Nomo's shared list). I think I will keep my R goals, or at least not review them. Just going to focus on personal goals. And...speaking of that...had some goals regarding my professional life. I had not really worried about it as W makes the $$ and was just gettig started. So I focused on just getting my job done, but was not thinking of advancement. Now that has changed and I planned on reviewing with my boss. Guess who wants to talk to me about moving up!?! He wanted to talk since last week, but we had no time. I really thought it was regarding some extar work outside of the company. Nope, wnats to talk about my future hear and what departmentS (yes multiple) I can take over managing. In my biz, Ops is king, and I have not had a strong desire to go that direction. Now I have opportunity in a different area! I did tell him my sitch and said while I am excited to discuss, I did not think we should move forward just yet. He said I should let him know when I'm ready. He has no immediate rush, just wants to see that I am happy with my job, and know that I have opportunity to move up. I suggested we revisit in 1-2 months and I should have a better idea where I'm at and a clearer head to focus on growth. Why did this happen? Because I'm damn good at what I do. Smart, confident and an all around amazing person!
Me 32 WAW 30 D Bomb 7/9 Separated 7/15 Reiterated bomb 8/12 PA 8/21 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1198643