Fran LOL. I don't get to O seven times every time Lou, I wouldn't expect it to happen every time. I bet there times when you don't O.
just when it isn't happening quickly for my H. And in it's way it can be equally frustrating, because I DO start to feel guilty I understand that too. There is a male version of that and sometimes I have it.
It's kind of weird we can be going at it good and I will O and then realize he's not done so we keep going and I O again, and he's still not done. Then it can start to get like I never O'd at all in that I really, really need to go again so I will go for it again hoping also that me being so hot and horny will make him feel that way too.. I can understand that too Fran.
While I can't have multiple "O's" at one time, sometimes when I have one, I want another one in a couple of hours.
So much for the "once he has one it should do him for a long time" theory.
I sometimes wonder if he goes into jealous mode - "hey how come she's having all the fun". That is a flip side of what goes through my mind.
I think, why doesn't some of my excitement rub off on BB? I even ask if there is any thing, large or small I can do to make it more fun/pleasurable for BB. She either tells me nothing, she doesn't know or to keep rubbing her back, but that puts her to sleep.
Some people were discussing things about wanting to be the opposite gender. At times when I am having a good time and BB is mostly there, I want her to be me for a half hour, and experience the excitement/thrill/passion I feel.
I don't know if that ties in with your "hey how come she's having all the fun" but I suspect it is a version of it.
Then there are the times when all goes well and we both pop at the same time and I end up thinking - what about the other 6? And then I'm horny all day like I didn't get ANY. OK, that is something I can understand but never thought too much about it IRL. The lets do it again in a couple hours is where I tended to stop because any more isn't something BB was willing to do.
2X a day we did. I think we tried 3X one day on the honeymoon. As far as BB having more than 1 "O" in a week, it happened a couple of times, I think. I could tell she was feeling good most of the time early in the M. It feels like I have been on the kiddy ride since 1981.
