Are you sure your H even knows you would be willing to try one more time? I see your pride starting to get in the way too...
I am pretty sure he knows. He knows me and can read me like a book. He heard me crying on the phone last night when he told me about the court date. I think it is me protecting myself that is getting in the way of saying to H...I will try one more time...not pride.
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Can you put the D on hold - even temporarily??
I cannot hold up the D. I signed all the forms including a waiver...I actually do not even have to go to court, so I can't hold it up, only he can.
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I see how much you love him and being another LBS I get what you are saying about wanting to be chased, pursued and convinced to take him back unfortunately I think that rarely happens or it doesn't happen at first recociliation.
I still do love him. We have attempted to reconcile one time before, but OW sunk her claws back in. Until he is ready to get away from her completely, there is absolutely no hope for us. He has to make the decision if OW is more important than attempting to save his marriage. It's down to the wire and only he knows what he can do. I've given up on convincing him of anything. He sees me for who I really am. He sees the great woman that he married be put through hell and come out better on the other side. It seems sort of strange that he would send the email to me given that I have been hurt more than anyone else. I guess in his heart he knows that I am the one person that he can count on to be there for him...I tolerate everything much better than his own family does...too many similarities I guess. Out of all of his family (10 siblings) he goes to his STBXW...I guess he does realize what we had.
