prodigalwife - When you had your "wake up" was it a complete reversal or did you realize what you wanted and gradually come to grips with it.
The reason I ask is that a month ago, my WAW called and asked me to go with her to counseling. A week later she got home from a 2 week trip and told me she had realized that she wanted to work on us and be around more for the kids. (she travels quite a bit for work) She even discussed the idea of quitting her job and finding something local. Well since then things have been getting better, and I can see some of her efforts, but she has yet to make a C appointment, I haven't seen any effort on the job front. As a matter of fact she seems to be sliding right back into her normal travel routine, and I discovered that she is still in touch with OM by phone, text, etc. I don't know if she has physically seen him since she started "wanting to work on us" but I can't be sure since I stopped keeping track.
I'm not sure what approach to take, if I should push (hasn't worked before) or begin following my gut which is telling me to just quit. (I don't want to, but I'm really getting tired of this)
