Hope,

Please don't get your hopes up but......Don't close the door. I think you e-mailing him back sound fine.
You both seem to recognize that HE needs to be the one to fix him but that does not mean you can't help him.
I think for your own good you need to try this one last time because if not you will always have this "What IF" hanging over your head.

Husband


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know