I understand about you needing to take care of your brother, but you need to think long-term also and make sure you take care of you & H as well! You've put too much effort into your M to allow it to fall apart now. Make sure you are taking the time you need to focus on you, your H and your M as well right now.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10