I understand about you needing to take care of your brother, but you need to think long-term also and make sure you take care of you & H as well! You've put too much effort into your M to allow it to fall apart now. Make sure you are taking the time you need to focus on you, your H and your M as well right now.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10