Trudging up hill

[Have Faith]

EdieM;

While your H has probably ended the A with the OW, it will probably take him sometime to actually emotionally get through the withdrawal process. After all he just ended it for the second time. I think my H has told the OW that he wasn't going to see her anymore twice before. He did not share this with me, but I could tell by his actions (mostly because he started working out with me at my gym) Both of these times only lasted for 1 week.

You have so many positives. He has told you he ended the A, he is living at home with you. How is he treating you. Is he loving and kind, or is he withdrawn and cold.

Don't pressure him about the changes that you know he needs to make. He know that he needs to do these things. He is probably just thinking about them.

You do need to start GALing. Once you start it, it will be easier. When we just sit around all day, it only makes for more sitting around. Haven't you ever had something you needed to do and because you had time, you just never got to it. Make yourself do it. You will feel better

Hang in there. You really do have a lot more positives then a lot of other people on this sight.

Faith