A couple times a week and more than 5 to 7 "O's". If that was my situation, I would never have found this site.
LOL. I don't get to O seven times every time Lou, that is mainly just when it isn't happening quickly for my H. And in it's way it can be equally frustrating, because I DO start to feel guilty. It's kind of weird we can be going at it good and I will O and then realise he's not done so we keep going and I O again, and he's still not done. Then it can start to get like I never O'd at all in that I really really need to go again so I will go for it again hoping also that me being so hot and horny will make him feel that way too, but it doesn't seem to work that way and I sometimes wonder if he goes into jealous mode - "hey how come she's having all the fun".
Then there are the times when all goes well and we both pop at the same time and I end up thinking - what about the other 6? And then I'm horny all day like I didn't get ANY.
But, I do understand Fran's frustrations. When you want to go on a pirate ride at the carnival, the single kiddy ride on the sidewalk at the shopping center, that only jiggles a little bit, is very disappointing.
You've hit the mark there!
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
