No offense, but that's an inappropriate analogy. This is a marriage, not a working R (unintended irony there). My point is, when I was making sexual advance -- I have made ZERO since she told me back in April how she was feeling -- I thought we were committed to making our lives work again. She HAD NOT TOLD ME how she felt about sex at the time. That I had been pushy in the past, yes. But I remember asking her on a few occassions if the way I was behaving was OK with her and she said YES. So, given my information and way she was acting toward me at the time, I thought things were going OK because SHE said things were going OK.
Would an advance be appropriate now? No. In fact, I've been hoping over these past 4 months that by me showing that I am committed to her, in (too many) words and actions she would realized that I love her for her, not for the delightful triangle between her thighs.
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Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
