Haphazard I have now completely decided in my M that I am responsible for my own happiness.
Fran, this might fit/apply , FWIW.


From another forum by JM:
and you're left to face your own life's re-evaluation.

Only you can choose to face that question.

Only you can choose to believe you can take care
of your own self. It's your own growth.

And the safety net below is what you created for yourself all along: perseverence, friendships, faith, education, esteem, and self respect.