The C is really great at getting my H to see that things are not better yet and that we still have a lot of work to do. The C has been helping both of us recognize the work we need to do personally before being together in a healthy relationship. Like you, I think H knows that this is going to take time but he really really wants this separation to end, have me move home and move on with life. I realize its very hard for him because he was perfectly happy with the way things were. Of course he was always getting his way so I am not so sure he would or can be happy with me now that I am growing a backbone and not letting anyone control me (my homework from MC).
Only time will tell.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.
