Maybe if you have some time could you check out Gollums thread, Please Reply in the Newcomers section. He has a near WA and could probably gain alot form you chiming in on his situation.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1162413&page=2#Post1162413 M-28 W-28 Together 10 years Married 2 years No children Things started taking a turn in 01/07
