I hope so Lin, I really hope so. Way, way back he said I must be either stupid or very understanding; this was before I started DBing. I cannot talk about OW anymore. I'm done with that. As far as telling him I'm waiting for him to fall out of love he would laugh in my face. OW is the one and that's that.
I once asked him if OW is the one and so wonderful why was he still here? The first thing he said was that he loved me and that's the story he tells her. She swallows it and so do I. The story I tell myself is that OW is going to drop dead or he'll fall out of love and come back to me as my H. But it's just a story.
Yes we're in the same house and yes we go out together and yes we still love each other but I wish he would go.
