I agree with you on the vows. Sadly, I just threw mine out this morning, literally. My H was cleaning out the garage looking for tools. He snuck in and broke in while I was out of town with the kids. That is soooo creepy that he does that! I noticed a pile of books, CDs, photos, on his workshop bench. I peered over to them. On top was a photo of me in Paris, postcards I had sent him before we dated, another happy photo of me on our honeymoon, a CD of our fave band U2, and on top were my wedding vows that I hand wrote on a place card. I cried thinking my H came home to remember that I actually do love him! He claims he is not having an affair because I do not love him. There is the proof, my wedding vows! The pile was mementos of true love, yes?
Sadly, the pile was the left behind pile. He took his baby photos and precious books and even sport clippings. That pile with my vows was the rubbish pile. The rubbish pile for me to keep or throw out. It was meaningless to him now. So I threw them out for him. I could not believe he saved all those cards and mementos and took the time to leave them in the rubbish pile for me to find.
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Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
