CVA - Angels vs. Devils

[dlt1]

Hey Cva, just got caught up on the last few days for you. I think you're doing well. get your rants out here, that's why we're here. I agree that getting both into JC would be the best move. My W is seeing our C separate from me. I todl C that I hope we can get in together at some point before any D becomes final. For closure if nothing else. I think W would accept if C suggests. Hoping for us both!
As for the thoughts/fears of dating. Thsi has been on my mind too. One, don't plan on it now (as I beleive you are not). Two, big key will be not actively pursuing a date. (Much like a WAW, let them come to you). Three, while DBing you have learned how to date...her needs, listening, validating. All the same with someone new, they like when a guy actually listens, does not just blah blah about themselves. Four, you found a wonderful woman once and married her. Lastly, why fear something that is not even your goal? You still have a W for now, and I bellieve you still want a M with her.
Hope I didn't get too far off base here.