Newbie ? How public was your spouse's affair?

[mkultra]

Thanks to everyone and their insights! I am almost ready to go back into my H's work which is also my family business! I showed up this week in the day time for one drink. I was going to go at night but I chickened out and my friends and I went to a different karaoke club. Unfortunatly, the rumors about him spread to that bar too and I got an earful about my H having an EA with yet another bar person. So strange this H is sooooo shy supposedly! But in the past he had a weakness for people/ girls who make him laugh. I also heard that he said he hated my guts and my H's friend blamed me for my H's depression and that he needd to find a good woman to understand him. My friends defended me to this gossiping drunk man and said if this "friend" was going to support a divorce he is not a true friend. Ironically, this "friend" was kicked out by his wife for hiding he was bisexual and he used to hit on me all the time. He is also a friend from church. I really wish this was private but I am getting a lot of love and support but mostly comments that my H has just gone loco. Thank You Everybody!