(((HUGS))) I'm so sorry. I can feel your sadness thru your post, and I hurt for you. I understand. we aren't D yet, but we are apart, and even though I have so much love in my life, I don't have the love of my life anymore. it hurts. it sucks.
we're starting school around here soon, and I'm determined to come up with new traditions. well, they were bound to be new since my kids are really just starting out, but still, maybe something for you to do? also, any chance you can still go to the concert, maybe with a friend? H bought us tix to wicked (this sept) when they went on sale last fall. I took the tix (hey, they are my consolation prize, I dare him to ask where they are). yesterday I asked one of my best girlfriends to go with me...I'm not going to give that up just because things are different now.
there really isn't anything I can say that you don't know...try to focus on yourself, count your blessings, gal, all that stuff. sometimes we just need to allow ourselves to be sad for a bit before we pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off, and move on again. remember, you are stronger than you know. and you will always need you. and who knows what (or who) is around the corner...try not to get too far ahead of yourself.
take care. I'll be thinking of you today
Last edited by morgan; 08/15/0702:18 PM.
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
