Need advice. Snooped, discovered infidelity.

[mkultra]

ImLin-That is a beautiful sentiment. Why is that not DBing? Is it because it is too confrontational? I know I read never to say ILY but then we just show love, right? I get swiss cheese brain sometimes on how to act. Cold or loving, detached or as if, dark or light?

I want to right down your quote ImLin and carry it in my back pocket. When I see him I just clam up and get all tongue tied and emotional. It is hard not to say the things I want to say.

Again, I hate that all us good people are going through this but I am glad we have each other!
ReOW- Sometimes I think of the OW as a stray cat or animal that is so bad for the home but my H always took in strays. It was in his nature to nurture creatures who were troubled. I figure OP are not the issue but have made it easier for them to stay away. I just hope this does not end badly for us when they end it with them. If they were troubled enough to be with a married person than what else are they capable of, perhaps they are just ignorant and being lied to also.